Today, I want to give you a few examples of mistakes that you can make that will definitely deter you from getting your ex back even though you are trying to. These are mistakes that you are going to want to avoid at all costs.
I want to tell you a little story about my friend Bob. This is a true story. And one that you are going to want to que es flirtear pay close attention to if you are trying to get back together with an ex of yours.
Bob was going out with a girl that he truly loved, Meghan. While they were together, her mom got sicked, & of course, Meghan went out of town to help her mom while she was sick. Which left Bob alone.
He was downtown shopping one day & happened to run into an ex of his. They were still on pretty good terms, & she invited Bob out to a party the next night. Of course, Bob accepted since Meghan was out of town & he was alone. He felt it would do no harm & give him something to do to occupy his time.
Well, to make a long story short, Bob got wasted & wound up sleeping with his ex. Some of Meghan's friends were at the party, & it didn't take long for word to get back to Meghan what had happened.
Meghan immediately broke things off with him. How could she ever trust him again? Bob realized that he had made a huge mistake. But he felt that the love that he & Meghan had shared was worth trying to save. So he went about trying to get her back. But he did it all wrong!
The first time that he ran into Meghan, he started begging & pleading with her to come back. He didn't even bother to apologize for the mistake that he had made, which might have made a difference. Of course, Meghan was still hurt & angry, & wanted none of it, so she turned & walked away.
Next, poor Bob started sending her text messages & kept trying to call her. Meghan, not having time to deal with what had happened between her & Bob, simply ignored them.
Bob, feeling totally rejected now, decided he was going to try the jealousy route. While he & Meghan were going out, one of her friends had showed an interest in him, so he called up Meghan's friend & asked her out. He was hoping that it would make Meghan jealous & she would ask him to come back.
But that didn't work either. Meghan simply broke off the friendship she had with the other girl, & put Bob completely out of her mind & started to move on with her life.
Bob had completely blown any chance or hope that he ever had of getting back with Meghan.
Remember, there is a right way & a wrong way to go about trying to get back together with an ex. One will possibly como gustarle a una chica get them back, & the other will totally destroy any chances that you ever had. Don't make the same mistakes that Bob made!